Many opinions, perceptions, thoughts, concepts bounce about in the cosmos like the atoms and molecules we are made of, along with all of which we do not know.  Chaos is structured, though how is the question, and our perceptions of the realities of life and also the chaos are infinite.  Love is the only one piece of this chaos which truly can hold reality in a grasp where the chaos is of course still there though being structured in reality our perceptions allow life to flourish along with love.  We will call it absolute love, which has nothing to do with the id, ego, jealousy, status, power, tyranny, or any of the other negative variations of the life force which does not enable the or a spiritual aspect.

Body, mind, and spirit will be the prevalent factors in our lives always, yet what do we actually know of the mind, especially in relation to the spirit and body in a loving relationship with another human being?  Psychology seems to be studied, restudied, regurgitated ad nausiam in our seemingly endless search of who is correct or right or even close in answering questions which have no set answers or solutions.  Of course this is not to imply that we stop research or studies, it is meant though as a possible conduit to stop assuming anything of which we are not certain, though that is not an assertion of knowing some esoteric solution to how we actually learn to love one and other.  Humbleness along with humility is positive, if we give truth which can only give us love in return.

Philosophy through the ages has produced fantasies, stories, romantic tales, tragedies, on small scale and large, some spiritual, some not.  Love is not philosophy, it is spiritual in the real sense, yet reality is based on the perceptions of what we consider to be love, or spiritual in the nature of absolute love.  Absolute love may be considered a myth of some sort to many, as who among us has encountered true absolute love in our lives of a true spiritual nature?  Not many, yet we still consider love to be what drives us, for we love our family and some outside of family.  Realistically our love and our perception of this love may not be the same for all of us, which of course is why perception is not the reality, ever.

We all have different perceptions of what reality may be, given the fact that some of us like blue or orange and some like red and purple, and the perceptions of what those colors actually look like are not the same as our eyes and brains may not respond exactly alike to the same stimuli, although we are able to differentiate colors of the spectrum, unless we perhaps are color blind.  Spiritually though we are all the same yet again we may be blind to our spirit.  Point is perceptions do not ever turn into the same exact thoughts or conceptualizations, though we need to verbalize our thoughts before they may be considered concepts in reality, or untruths, as it really does not matter, be it a lie or the truth.  From the aspect of love our concepts will be the truth from our spirit along with our spirituality.

Assuming, mentioned a bit ago, is the worst possible word for any  hypothesis or theory in the scientific search for the truth, yet it is so often used to give a solution to a hypothesis or theory, as in assume perception and percepts give the same concepts to a given stimuli in all situations in the study.   First error is the assumption, we must stop with this word assume, at least in my humble opinion.  Perception is the reality is one of those idiotic assumptions of which perhaps has caused anything except solutions, exceedingly obvious in our lack of spirituality, truth and love.

Optimists are the majority, as instinctively  most of us are a bit more optimistic yet the balance is always being thrown off as pessimism is more often than not all we actually hear, as in when do we hear only good news?  Spirituality in this attitude is at a minimum as negativity breeds more of an animalistic approach in behavior.  As in the fact that animals do not think in terms of spirituality, they only act through and of instinct along with the trait of mimicking the peers in the group.  A pack of wolves will go into a mad frenzy over a kill out of instinct for survival, meaning the strong will get the food to survive while the weak may survive though weakly, or they just die of hunger or disease.  Human beings on the other hand are not animals, yet they still act as animals in some circumstances as a result of the lack of spirituality in their lives.

Human beings are on a different plain then in respect to the animals, which is why of course we love animals and care for them, as they will love us back even if we mistreat them, though at times they may strike back at being mistreated, though usually not to the people who feed them.  In other words people react, or are meant to react through and of the spirit, rather than just react to behavior or emotional stimulus, which is the difference between the human being and the animal.  When we humans act as animals we have lost any sense of our spiritual nature and have succumbed to behavior which has no moral value, or virtue.